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Poverty and an absence of schooling are elements which have lengthy been blamed for driving kids into wedlock in some conventional communities in Indonesia, India, Pakistan and Vietnam. However through the coronavirus pandemic, younger women throughout Asia are being pressured into marriages in larger numbers by determined households battling deepening poverty.
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Lesson one:if you cant afford a kid..dont make one!!!!
Selling/forcing your child into marriage won't solve poverty problems.. that way of thinking should be changed
Women in so many parts of the world are trapped and not safe
Im half indonesian, i spend my my life in java for 15 years, and thats true, lot early marriages in remote villages, and they had more than one child, most of their child not taken care of and become victims of their parents poverty, even its happend before covid
Im half indonesian, i spend my life in java for 15 years, and thats true, lot early marriages in remote villages, and they had more than one child, most of their child not taken care of and become victims of their parents poverty, even its happend before covid
This hurts 😤
I live in Indonesia
And it's true
Some of the area in Indonesia
Parents
Allowed their children or Force their child to get married
Including me
I've been Proposed once
When i was 14 y.o
untuk calon orang tua di masadepan tolong ya didik dulu anak sampai matang dan bisa cari uang sendiri, jangan sampai anak cucu kita kelak hidupnya masih kesusahan miskin, negara orang lain uda maju masa kita mau gini gini aja idup
That's crazy … all these marriages happening and yet those who really want to get married are either single or in waiting
Welcome to muslim country
Of.track.🤦👁️
Just sad and dumb of the parents for thinking this is life and culture. Who would want their kids going through this. No choice don't get pregnant
This is one of the basic yet wrong mindset us (Indonesians) commonly have, generation after generation after generation think and taught that getting married and bear children are one of the most important goal in life. Like your life is not a glorious ideal life if you are not married and got kids at certain age, with or without mental stability, with or without financial security, you just gonna have to deal with it later. BUT NO GUYS. THERES MORE TO LIFE. WE ALL DESERVE TO BE HAPPY IN OUR OWN WAY.
You have no choice your tribe and people are at risk if they are go in instinct then do what is needed
And we should be surprised ?
Anjir aku sekarang 15 thn aja masi bingung
Product of Toxic parents.
As western people we are shocked by this, but people forget this is their life, who are we to step in?? As horrific as it is, their mothers are the ones who mutilate and white their daughters. It breaks my heart, but if someone came into your home and told you that you are bringing up your children wrong,you'd have something to say. We can't change these traditions,there will always be women who believe this is right. As sad a it is people.🥺😢
Bugis-makassar people raise up
I'm Indonesian and i'm 33 yo and i have not married. I'm from a poor family, but i'm lucky cos i have undergraduate title, i got the title while i worked for a company 5 years ago. But having the title doesn't give us warranty we will succeed in job world. In a big city like Jakarta, many people have this title, so we need not only work hard to find a job but also LUCK.
Now i have decided not to marry and having a child. I have worked really hard, faced many obstacles, even ordeals, but still i failed to be successful. I wont bring my wife and my child experience what i have gone through. Without a child of mine, this world is still alright. This world is not lack of children, this world need more logical and selfless people.
just to get divorce like 4 or 5 years later. the woman end up rising them kiddos alone and the father remaried. plenty of these around me 😭